When we
tell people we are going on a vacation, they ask where. When we them Lebanon, some
people say, "I like Lebanese food."
But most
people say something like --
"That's
scary."
I had a
version of this conversation the other day. I mention vacation. Interlocutor
asks where. I reply Lebanon.
"Is
that safe?"
Actually, Beirut,
where out daughter Sonya lives, is a very safe city. Virtually no street crime.
No youth gangs. No drug dealing. Women are safe walking alone.
"...
But street fighting?"
That was back
from 1975 to 1990, during a terrible civil war that left a permanent scar's on
the country's reputation. It has certainly left an indelible impression in
the American mind.
"Are
you Lebanese?"
No. I give a
one sentence summary of our relationship with Lebanon. Our daughter has lived
there for a dozen years working for organizations such as the UN and currently
is a partner in a small consultancy.
"The
reason I said that is I'm Lebanese."
Really? I press
for details about my interlocutor's Lebanese background. It comes from her grandparents'
generation. The older generation still has relatives living there.
"Well,
in that case you should go there..." I begin my 'joys and delights of the
country' spiel. Mountains and beaches. Wonderful produce; greens, fruits, wine.
Flowers in spring (and winter, for that matter; see photos at left.) Many good and inexpensive restaurants; French bakeries. Six varieties of oranges.
My partner
in conversation interrupts: "It's scary."
I know when
I'm not getting anywhere. I change the subject.
I've had
other, more positive responses. People I contacted for work tell me they got
back to me right because I was going on vacation.
Some people
bring up Syria. A serious concern in all ways. And it's certainly true that some parts of
the country we might have visited -- and have visited in the past -- we will avoid this time because of tensions spilling
over from the border. The presence of an estimated one million refugees in
a county of 4 million people obviously strains resources.
Another
friend says he and his wife have just come back from a vacation in "Naples... Naples, Florida."
Florida
must be great this time of year, I say.
"But
it's not some place risky," he adds in a somewhat apologetic tone.
In a bank,
however, of all places, the young man assisting us with a transaction says, "Wow.
Lebanon? That's great."
Ah, hopeful
youth. Now that's what I want to hear.
(Photos taken by Sonya of flowers on her lemon tree budding, and then opening. She writes: "The whole balcony smelled of lemon blossoms."